It’s ironic that I am writing this blog on a Saturday night while drinking a glass of white wine thinking I really should relax more. Andrew Milne has asked me to describe ways in which educators can benefit from self-care.
Before I start the journey let’s start with the core purpose or the why around ‘self-care’.
I often hear teachers state that they never take time off when they’re sick, that they will not let the children down, and the children come before everything.
Although commendable this is highly problematic. If we start with the last statement that the children are the most important aspect of our profession then the former two statements don’t really make sense.
The children we serve deserve to have healthy, well and happy teachers. Self-care is not an act of the self, it is fundamentally an act of giving, it is neither selfish or indulgent, self-care is essentially part of your job and duty to the young people we serve.
If we look at time for yourself as an act of work and part of your duty then treat it as such. Many teachers will factor in time to grade or mark papers and set aside everything else in this time as it must be done. I would advocate doing the same thing but with an act with which you choose to recharge. Personally I knit, now that may sound silly to many of you, however, this is part of my self-care routine. The act of setting aside five minutes where I sit with my needles in perfect concentration every couple of hours during this isolation has been a godsend. I am 100 % sure it has also made me more productive in all of my daily tasks..
Value your mental health as much as you value your physical health. Actually scratch that, you are all educators and lots of us put our physical health to the back of the queue. While working in schools it is very difficult to escape from the high-pressure environment and assess where you are on the spectrum of okay to not okay.
If you break your leg a doctor will often rest the leg and keep your weight off it for a prolonged period of time. Resting your brain does not work in the same way as you cannot keep the burden or the strain of the weight off of it.
My personal way of evaluating my current state is to regularly check in with people who I trust. These are people who I trust and bear the content of my mind to regularly. I share my feelings, my thoughts and my reactions and they are much better placed to judge my mental well-being than I am when I am either ill or becoming more ill or pressured.
As many of you know I suffer from appearances from the ‘Black dog’, excuse the colloquialism from the UK. The Black dog represents depression. This analogy means that the dog returns time and time again and weighs us down and/or stays in the shadows hindering our progress like the mental illness does.
One of the symptoms of depression is the loss of joy, I often curse myself for this ailment because not only does my brain tell me to be sad every day it also refuses to take joy in the remedies I try.
For this final tip I would say listen to your brain. Yes, it’s great to train for a marathon or to learn a new language or to play the violin at the highest level. However, it’s really important to listen to your brain instead of telling it what you think you should be doing. If your brain says have a duvet day, dig under the duvet, stay in bed, make a fortress and listen. If your brain says go and do some exercise, do that exercise. Educators are experts in telling our pupils what’s good for them. Sometimes we don’t need someone to tell us, sometimes we just need to listen.
This microblog post was a featured post in #slowchathealth’s #microblogweek. You can search for all of the featured posts here. Please do follow each of the outstanding contributors on social media and consider writing a microblog post of your own to be shared with the global audience of slowchathealth.com